🌍 The Narcissism Recovery Project™
Healing the Fear That Divides Us
A movement for emotional repair and relational courage — founded by therapist and author Darren Elliott
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Americans Must Learn to Love Each Other Again
You were never each other’s enemy.
Gaslighting and fear has caused trauma and division.
You were always Americans first—neighbors, teachers, parents, workers, dreamers.
Let’s practice emotional leadership—together.
One Love Loop at a time.
📘 Coming July 2025: The United States of Disconnection
The United States of Disconnection is part memoir, part cultural mirror, and part roadmap toward emotional recovery in a divided world.
Therapist and author Darren Elliott blends lived experience, client insights, and political trauma theory to trace how narcissism became a cultural epidemic—from families to churches to the Oval Office.
If you’re exhausted by fear-based leadership, religious trauma, toxic masculinity, or emotional isolation—this book will help you understand how we got here, and how we heal.
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What Is Love Loops™?
Love Loops™ Is Not a Quick Fix — It’s a New Way to Be Human
Love Loops™ teaches people how to:
Own their emotional reactions without blame
Rebuild broken trust through repair
Stay connected through conflict
Heal from narcissistic abuse
And most importantly, co-create emotionally safe, sustainable relationships
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🌍 A Movement for Emotional Repair in a Disconnected World
We are not just recovering from narcissism.
We are recovering from disconnection.
Welcome to The Narcissism Recovery Project™ — a global movement founded by psychotherapist and author Darren Elliott, devoted to restoring our capacity to love, connect, and feel again in a world that taught us to disconnect, perform, and fear.
This is not a site for labeling people.
It’s a site for freeing people—from shame, silence, and emotional survival strategies that no longer serve us.
“Narcissism is not a personality disorder. It’s a relational injury. And that means it can heal—in relationship.”
Darren Elliott,
Registered Psychotherapist and Founder of Online Therapy Ontario
❤️ This Project Is for You If…
You long for real connection, but find yourself performing, defending, or disappearing
You’ve felt gaslit, blamed, or dismissed in your relationships
You wonder if you have narcissistic traits and want to change
You were raised in a family that looked good on the outside—but left you emotionally alone
You want to raise emotionally strong kids who know how to love and be loved
You believe we can create a better world—one emotionally mature relationship at a time
🌍 What's Coming in This Movement
Why this matters now
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Something is deeply wrong in America—and it’s not just political.
It’s emotional.It’s relational.
And it’s spreading like wildfire.
But just like an alcoholic becomes a recovering alcoholic through daily awareness and support,
a narcissist can become a recovering narcissist through accountability, truth, and relationships that foster healing.
💡 Our Vision
We are building:
A grassroots movement of emotional healing, education, and empowerment
A living library of worksheets, books, group practices, and coaching models
A community of practice where therapists, coaches, recovering narcissists, and survivors co-create something new
A space of belonging for those waking up from toxic systems—religious, familial, cultural, political
You can read our books.
You can join or start a Love Loops™ circle: free materials coming soon.
You can share your story, start your own group, and download resources.
You can even laugh and cry with Doreen Devine™, our recovering narcissist drag queen who brings truth in heels.
— Darren Elliott, RP
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This Isn’t Just a Recovery Program — It’s a Movement
Let’s break the cycle of narcissistic culture.
Let’s remember our shared humanity.
Let’s build communities where people feel seen, safe, and supported.
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💞 Introducing Love Loops™
💞 What Is Love Loops™?
Love Loops™ is the heart of The Narcissism Recovery Project. It’s not a diagnosis—it’s a path forward.
Love Loops™ teaches that love is not a reward you earn, but a connection you co-create—one moment, one repair, one vulnerable truth at a time.
Whether you’re recovering from narcissistic family patterns, toxic leadership, or emotional shutdown, Love Loops™ gives you the tools to reconnect—with yourself, others, and the world.
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Spotlight Doreen Devine™
🎭 Doreen Devine™: Truth in Heels
Meet your favorite recovering narcissist, drag queen, and emotional truth-teller. Doreen Devine™ brings fierce compassion, political satire, and spiritual sass to our cultural moment.
Through songs, rants, interviews, and laughter, Doreen teaches what it means to be a recovering human—and why emotional maturity is the revolution we need.
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✍️ About the Author
Darren Elliott, RP – Founder of The Narcissism Recovery Project™
Darren Elliott is a registered psychotherapist, trauma educator, and the visionary behind The Narcissism Recovery Project™, Love Loops™, and platforms like OnlineTherapyOntario.com, LGBTQtherapy.ca, and CoachingForNarcissism.com.
A survivor of narcissistic abuse and a former “peacekeeper child” in a narcissistic family system, Darren brings both lived experience and clinical expertise to his mission: to heal the fear that keeps us apart—and to help people remember how to love again.
His approach blends trauma-informed relational therapy, Gestalt, and attachment science, with inspiration from thought leaders like Terry Real, Ellyn Bader, Tara Brach, and Gabor Maté. But at the heart of his work is a simple truth:
“Narcissism isn’t evil.
It’s emotional immaturity stuck in survival mode.”
— Darren Elliott
Through his writing, programs, and performances—including his truth-telling drag queen alter ego Doreen Devine™—Darren invites us to become recovering humans and co-create a world built on compassion, accountability, and emotional presence.
He lives in Ontario with his chosen family and a fierce belief that healing is always possible—especially when we do it together.